Changed da house,
Changed da look.
BTW, my bathrobe's usually pink
and we don't have a fireplace.
Other than that,
it's pretty accurate...
Psst...click the words above to navigate.
Best viewed, unfortunately, in Internet Explorer.
Saturday, July 17, 2004
~ DIY Marriage Counselling ~
Seeing how our marriage counsellor is away on a holiday with his wife sans mobile and email, and seeing how the 2 books he had passed to the middleman for our perusal and meditation have mysteriously gone astray, Tony and I were left to our own devices.
We thus started on an alternative... the shared reading of a marriage preparation book that started with a chapter entitled "Congratulations!" and went on to ask about the nature of the relationship, and what expectations we have for the marriage ahead of us. All in all, that alone took us 3 solid hours of just eyeballing each other and spilling our guts.
And that wasn't even a 10th of the book.
So yah, we figure we've got a lot to wade through. But you know what? It was a pretty fun process. And if anything, it was an exercise in articulating long-kept expectations and dreams of the kind of marriage we've each always hoped to have.
For starters, we've agreed that pre-nupts, while they might have saved a lot of heinies out there, are not going to figure anywhere in what we're about to embrace.
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